February 27, 2014



Icon of the Transfiguration, the Gospel for this
coming Sunday.

This coming Sunday, March 2nd and the Last Sunday after the Epiphany, we will have ONE service only at 9 o’clock followed by a coffee hour hosted by the altar Guild. We hope you will join us for worship and fellowship. Please bring your dried palms from last year to be burned for Ash Wednesday ashes.
Your attendance is particularly important, because a very brief Special All-Parish Meeting to elect new Vestry member and alternates to Convention will take place at announcement time. 
Readings for this Sunday: Exodus 24:12-18;Psalm 2; 2 Peter 1:16-21; Matthew 17:1-9.

"Ways to Actively Participate in the Lenten Season at Saint Andrew's-in-the-Valley" is now online. Click Here to open it. Printed copies are available in the Parish Hall, on green paper.

Pick up your Lenten Meditation booklets and Journey through Lent calendars from the Parish Hall table.

 Come and join the feasting at the Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper on Tuesday, March 4th, starting at 6 pm.  Reservations and tickets are not needed.

On the menu are pancakes (both plain and with blueberries) with real maple syrup, sausage, and beverages. Wear your beads and masks or even a costume! Activities available for the young and young-at-heart. The modest cost for all this is $5 for each adult or teen and $2 for children 12 and under.

And by participating in this meal you will also be helping to support some great causes; 50% of all funds raised through the Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper go to organizations that provide help to others in the local community and around the world.

The following day, March 5th, is Ash Wednesday.
9 AM: Service of Morning Prayer
Noon and 7 PM: Imposition of ashes & Holy Eucharist.
We will be burning last year’s palms to make ashes immediate before the evening service.


We are in need of volunteer coffee hour hosts. Have you hosted recently? Sally DeGoot, our hospitality chair, would be happy to work with you. Thank you.
Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it.  Hebrews 13:2


And what exactly is Shrove Tuesday? It’s the last day before Lent begins. The word shrove comes from the verb to shrive, meaning “to impose penance for a sin and grant absolution to a penitent.” It is the church’s custom that the faithful prepare for Lent by making their confessions and receiving absolution.  The intent of the merry- making associated with Shrove Tuesday (and Mardi Gras) is to get the “wild and crazies” out of your system and kick up your heals a bit before entering the more austere season of Lent. Eating pancakes on Shrove Tuesday has its roots in the middle ages.  During Lent there were many foods that most Christians would not eat: foods such as meat and fish, fats, eggs, and milk. So that no food was wasted, families would have a feast on Shrove Tuesday, and eat up all the rich foods that wouldn't last the forty days of Lent without spoiling. The need to eat up the fats gave rise to the French name Mardi Gras, meaning Fat Tuesday. Pancakes became associated with Shrove Tuesday as they were a dish that could use up all the eggs, fats, and milk in the house with just the addition of flour, and benefited from lots of butter and sweet syrup!  In England and Canada, Shrove Tuesday is still fondly known as Pancake Day.


A group gathered last Sunday to hear about the possibility of embarking on a ministry of letter writing with women at the Goffstown State Prison. If you are interested, please talk to Rev. Heidi for details. Thanks go to Elizabeth Wiesner for seeing the possibility of this ministry and for inviting Beth Richeson to join us last Sunday.
Food for thought, reflection, and prayer…


 Last Sunday, February 23, the Rev. Beth Richeson (yes, this is the correct spelling) joined us as guest preacher and discussion leader. Beth is the chaplain at the state prison for women in Goffstown. In her homily she preached passionately on the first chapter of the Book of the Prophet Hosea, reflecting on the incredible power of naming, as she lifted up stories of how damaging the negative names we may have received can be. One example came from a woman named “Mary” at the prison: “Her mother named her Unwanted. Her father named her Tramp. Her husband named her Punching-bag. Her 11-year old son named her Mom. Her younger child had no name for her at all. Society named her Prisoner, inmate, murderer, monster. But her name is Mary, which means God’s Beloved. This is what God named her in her mother’s womb.


The fact is that God knows each of us as “Beloved” – treasured daughter or son. Beth invited us to ponder what naming was like in our own families – to think back on the “names” by which each of us have been known. Knucklehead? Klutz? Bubble-brain? Trash? Dummy? … Sweetheart? Champ? Pumpkin-doodle? Precious? Do those old names still resonate, constraining you or empowering you?

Naming or renaming happens in relationship. Often we may feel that those old names “name” us for life. What difference might it make for you to intentionally recognize the names that we have been given – or the new names that we might choose to take – that will lead us into wholeness and fullness of life. This Sunday we will hear again the familiar names that Jesus heard at his baptism, then again on the mountain at his Transfiguration: “You are my beloved. With you I am well pleased.” That is how Jesus was named, a name the empowered him to live the life he was called to live. It is the name by which God names each of us, his beloved children, as well while still in our mother’s womb: Beloved. The-one-with-whom-I-am-well-pleased.

“Holy God, Open wide in each of us space for your holy Word to rumble around and to root and grow into understanding or peace or even action according to your will…Amen.”
 

See you in church.
Blessings, Heidi+


February 20, 2014


The cast of "Death by Chocolate"
(more pictures below)
Services for this coming Sunday, February 23 and the Seventh Sunday after the Epiphany, will be at 8 and 10 AM. Each service is followed by a coffee hour. We hope you will join us for worship and fellowship.

At the 10 o’clock service, we will have a special guest preacher, the Rev. Beth Richardson. Beth is the Episcopal chaplain at the Women’s Prison in Goffstown. I have invited her to join us to give us a window into her ministry at the prison and to open the possibility of our establishing a letter-writing ministry with some of the inmates.
Let mutual love continue … Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them . [Hebrews 13:3]

PLEASE TAKE NOTE ….Special All-Parish Meeting to elect new Vestry member and alternates to Convention on March 5th: This two-minute formality will take place at announcement time during the 9 o’clock service. The uncontested slate put forward by the Nominating Committee is as follows, each for a two-year term:
Vestry member: Carolyn Boldt 
First alternate to Convocation and Convention: Gretchen Behr-Svendsen
Second alternate: Lisa Thompson
Absentee Voting: An absentee ballot may be cast by a member who is for good cause unable to attend the meeting, by application in writing to the Clerk. Absentee ballots must be submitted to the clerk, Chris Mill, by this Sunday. Her email address is alba4me@yahoo.com
New Parish directory is in the works!!! A draft copy will be available in the parish hall this Sunday. Please check for your information and picture. If you need a new picture, talk to Duane. If there are corrections needed, please make them clearly. If you would like to have your cell phone number and/or email address included, please specify that as well. [The directory is made available to people who attend Saint Andrew's. It is NOT posted on line. We will not include email addresses or cell phone numbers unless you request it.] Thanks.

We are in need of volunteer coffee hour hosts. Have you hosted recently? Please check the Parish Hall sign up sheet for a date that you may be available to help or host. If you’d like to provide goodies for coffee hour but are unable to serve with set-up and clean-up, or if your available to do set-up and clean-up but prefer not to do the goodies, please let the office know as well; we can pair you up and make a team! “Training” is available. Sally DeGoot, our hospitality chair, would be happy to work with you. Thank you.
Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it.  Hebrew 13:2

Lent is almost here!
Time to bring in your palms from last year for burning. They will become the ashes for Ash Wednesday.

Plan to attend the Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper:  Tuesday evening, March 4, at 6 o’clock. $5 for adults and teens; $2 for children. Wear your beads and masks. Activities available for the young and young-at-heart.

Ash Wednesday services will be at Noon and 7 PM on March 5th.

 

 
Food for thought
I was in the kitchen here at church an hour ago, heating up my soup in the microwave, and found myself reading the “Kitchen Blessing Prayer” that was posted there on the occasion of the blessing our kitchen after refurbishing it back in the fall of 2011. The poem made me think of all the hard work that was done last week relating to the Mystery Dinner extravaganza.   I dedicate this poem, with gratitude to God, to the amazing workers of this parish who gave so generously of their time and talent to make that event (and so many others) all that they are!
So, to Carol (chief chef), Chris Mills (playwright and director), David  (tickets), Lynn (publicity), Duane (photography and graphic design), Carolyn (set desgn), the Cast, the Huckmans (clean-up team extraordinaire), and all the assistants and behind-the-scene workers: Dan, Gina, Courtney, Michelle, Jim, Dale Judy, Deb,  THANK YOU!

To be of use, by Marge Piercy
The people I love the best
jump into work head first
without dallying in the shallows
and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.
They seem to become natives of that element,
the black sleek heads of seals
bouncing like half-submerged balls.

 I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,
ho pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,
who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,
who do what has to be done, again and again.

 I want to be with people who submerge
in the task, who go into the fields to harvest
and work in a row and pass the bags along,
who are not parlor generals and field deserters
but move in a common rhythm
when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

The work of the world is common as mud.
Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.
But the thing worth doing well done
has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.
Greek amphoras for wine or oil,
Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums
but you know they were made to be used.
The pitcher cries for water to carry
and a person for work that is real.

from Circles on the Water. © Alfred A. Knopf. Keep small font

 See you in church.
Blessings, Heidi+
 
Picture array from the evening of "Death by Chocolate"
Ken and Deb Hoyt celebrate their 6th Anniversary
at the Mystery Dinner

The Chef's consult

Backstage

Backstage
The audience
Rev. Tobias with his granddaughter

The lucky winner, Peggy Cannon, drawn from the correct guesses.


 
 

February 13, 2014



Services for this coming Sunday, February 16 and the Sixth Sunday after the Epiphany, will be at 8 and 10 AM. Each service is followed by a coffee hour. We hope you will join us for worship and fellowship.
Readings for this Sunday: Deuteronomy 30:15-20, Psalm 119:1-8; 1 Corinthians 3:1-9; Matthew 5:21-37.

We are in need of volunteer coffee hour hosts. Have you hosted recently? Please check the Parish Hall sign up sheet for a date that you may be available to help or host. If you’d like to provide goodies for coffee hour but are unable to serve with set-up and clean-up, or if your available to do set-up and clean-up but prefer not to do the goodies, please let the office know as well; we can pair you up and make a team! “Training” is available. Sally DeGoot, our hospitality chair, would be happy to work with you. Thank you.
 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it. 
Hebrew 13:2
Special Thanks to all who are so busily preparing for the Valentine’s Day Murder Mystery Dinner tomorrow evening.  Considerable preparation is going into this (now sold out) event! It looks like the weather will cooperate and the show will go on!!! If there’s any question about the weather, please call the church (323-8515) and an announcement will be posted. But it looks as though the snow will be over and we should be cleared out by Friday afternoon.

Baptismal Preparation and Inquirers’ Class: Have you been thinking about getting baptized? Or do you have questions about faith, Christianity, or the Episcopal Church that weren’t resolved when you were twelve and confirmed??? I will be working with at least one person, and it would be wonderful to make it a group. We would begin in early February and culminate with baptism and reaffirmation of vows at the Easter Vigil on April 19th or Easter Sunday. I am envisioning a program that would have some group meetings, maybe some on-line or at-home learning, and some individual meetings as appropriate. If any of our middle-school/Junior High young people are interested, it would be wonderful for them to be included. The details will be worked out as I discover who would like to be involved. Please call me at church or home (367-8220) or email me (frantzdale@gmail.com). And if there are a couple of people who want a “brush-up,” catechesis and formation always benefit from a group with varied experiences to share, I would welcome some “Companions-on-the-Way” who might serve as mentors. I look forward to embarking on this together!

Greetings from Walter Fortier! He’s doing well, but wanted us all to know that he misses worshiping at Saint Andrew’s and especially misses the people. He’s at Mineral Springs in North Conway and always greets visitors with his warm smile and enthusiastic sparkle. Consider stopping by – just enter through the main door at take the left-hand corridor.  His room is directly at the end.

Food for thought: You are the salt of the earth. You are the light of the world!
A few of you have responded to the challenge I put forward last Sunday when we explored this Gospel passage together
(Matthew 5:13-16). Email me some ways in which you have been the “salt” that gives flavor and interest to some situation or a way in which you have been that light to others. Jesus says very clearly, “Let your light shine before others, that they may see you good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.” We all do this, quietly in our lives. I promise to keep your stories anonymous, but it would be a powerful witness to each other and others for us to be aware of how we are all being God’s light in the world. [Jesus also says, “Don’t hide it under a basket. Put it on a lampstand!”]  And, if you really can’t talk about your light, tell me about someone else’s. I will keep that anonymous as well.

See you in church.
Blessings, Heidi+

February 6, 2014

 
Peg Cade receives special recognition award


 Services for this coming Sunday, February 9, the Fifth Sunday after the Epiphany, will be at 8 and 10 AM. Each service is followed by a coffee hour. We hope you will join us for worship and fellowship.

Death By Chocolate, our third annual murder mystery dinner, is this Friday, Valentines Day (February 14th)!  Reservations are required and seating is limited.  There are fewer than six places left. Please call the office (323-8515) immediately to make your reservation.
Our Annual Meeting last Sunday:
Weather notwithstanding, we had a healthy quorum for our Brunch and Parish Meeting. Lynne Clough completed her Vestry term and is stepping down from chairing the FUN-Raising Committee; Patti Rau completed her term as Alternate to Convocation and Convention, as did Lee Custer. The parish extended their thanks to each of them and gifts were given in their names through Heifer Project international.

Peg Custer, former rector who, together with Lee, is about to move back to Maryland, gifted the parish with a set of photos and matching frames for a "gallery" of Saint Andrew's rectors. Quiz question: Who is it in the picture she is displaying?

The dessert table included a birthday cake for Peg Cade.
Thanks to everyone for your contributions and spirit!


Baptismal Preparation and Inquirers’ Class: Have you been thinking about getting baptized? Or do you have questions about faith, Christianity, or the Episcopal Church that weren’t resolved when you were twelve and confirmed??? I will be working with at least one person, and it would be wonderful to make it a group. We would begin in early February and culminate with baptism and reaffirmation of vows at the Easter Vigil on April 19th or Easter Sunday. I am envisioning a program that would have some group meetings, maybe some on-line or at-home learning, and some individual meetings as appropriate. If any of our middle-school/Junior High young people are interested, it would be wonderful for them to be included. The details will be worked out as I discover who would like to be involved. Please call me at church or home (367-8220) or email me (frantzdale@gmail.com). And if there are a couple of people who want a “brush-up,” catechesis and formation always benefit from a group with varied experiences to share, I would welcome some “Companions-on-the-Way” who might serve as mentors. I look forward to embarking on this together!

And a message from the Rector…
As those of you who were at church on Sunday saw, I was stunned beyond words by the surprise recognition of my ten years as your rector. (Duane and I moved in on February 2, 2004.) Special thanks to the Liturgy Committee and the Vestry who composed the litany in which you all joined and presented us with a lovely gift certificate to Snow village Inn at the close of the Annual Meeting. It is an honor to serve as your priest and pastor; thanks be to God for your presence in my life and for all that we are able to do together!
Eleanore's Project news...
Here are pictures for boxing day for Eleanore's Project that took place at my house on Saturday February 1. On Monday I drove the shipment to Rehabilitation Equipment Suppliers (REQ) in Manchester where we put 44 cartons and seven specialty wheelchairs on six pallets for shipment to Iowa and eventually to Lima, Peru.

The people in the picture are Kim, Mary Jo and Scott. The other one shows the sorted equipment ready to be packed. We worked from 7 am to 6:30 pm. to get everything boxed up and loaded in the U-Haul truck. Thank you to everyone for your support of this valuable mission work!





Food for thought from Sunday’s litany:
Almighty and everlasting God, … open our hearts and minds and hands in mutual ministry [and] accept our thanks and praise for the ministries you have set before us in this place. May our care for each other grow constantly more reverent and more discerning; may our concern for the men, women, and children in our communities be real and shaped by our faithfulness and love; may our compassion for our sisters and brothers across the world teach us to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God.   Amen.

For minds to think, and hearts to love, and hands to serve, we give you thanks, O God.

Holy and Eternal God, give us such trust in your purpose, that we measure our lives not by what we have done or failed to do, but by our faithfulness to You. Amen.   

For minds to think, and hearts to love, and hands to serve, we give you thanks, O God.

See you in church.
Blessings, Heidi+