September 24, 2015




There will be services at 8 and 10 this coming Sunday, September 27th and the 18th Sunday after Pentecost, with coffee hour following both services. We hope you will join us for worship and fellowship.
 Readings: Esther 7:1-6, 9-10; 9:20-22, Psalm 124, James 5:13-20, Mark 9:38-50.
It is with sadness that we share the news of the death on Tuesday of Lee Custer (husband of the Rev. Peg Custer who was rector here in the 1990s and early 2000s). Lee died peacefully after a number of years of difficult health. Peg and Lee were active members here, until their move to Maryland last winter to be near their family. Peg’s address: 7500 Mill Run Drive, Derwood MD 20855
 Our Annual Blessing of the Animals will be next Sunday, October 4th. There will be ONE service only at 9:00 that morning. Dogs should come on leash, cats and rabbits in carriers, birds in cages. Invite your friends to bring their pets as well, and if your animal doesn’t feel up to coming in person, feel free to bring a proxy. This year, our service falls on the actual Feast Day of St. Francis!
HELP! Dinner Bell needs cooks for October 4th! If you think you would like to help with this outreach program and have never done this before, it’s easier than you think.  Please contact Carol Tubman with questions or contact the office with your confirmation to help.
Calling all bakers and jam makers!!! We’re down to the wire on Sandwich Fair prep time! Apple and/or pumpkin whoopee pies have become one of our now signature offerings!  Small loaves of seasonally appropriate sweet breads such as pumpkin, apple, apple spice, and zucchini are also top sellers! If you’re willing to help with some baking, please call Chris Mills at 603-452-4049 or email at alba4me@yahoo.com. She has a standard recipes to share for the whoopee pies and will provide more details to anyone who calls or emails. Make some now and freeze them, or commit now to baking later and have us count on you! Thanks.
Sign up to tend our booth at the Fair! It’s fun. It’s easy. Be an emissary of Saint Andrew’s! (And it gets you into the Sandwich Fair!) The fair runs for three days: October 10 – 12. The shifts are 3 hours. Carol has the list!

How do I give flowers for the altar at St. Andrew’s? Here’s the procedure. It’s really very simple:

·         There’s a Flower Sign-up Chart to the left of the Parish Bulletin Board in the Parish Hall. It provides a listing of all the Sundays in the current year, with a space next to each date.    

·         Altar flowers may be given in thanksgiving for or in memory of a person or an event.    

·         Write your name next to the date on the chart.    

·         Complete the information requested on the envelopes that are in a pouch attached to the chart.    

·         Please indicate whether the altar guild should procure the flowers, or whether you will personally provide the flowers, and whether you will arrange them yourself.

·         We ask a contribution of $25 if you want the altar guild to procure the flowers.

·         Put the money or a check in the envelope and put the envelope on Deb’s desk in the office.

PLEASE remember: We need all the information on the envelope, so that mention can be made in the bulletin and in the prayers.

How many of these field workers can you identify?
 Abundant thanks to the team of willing workers who gathered last Saturday to harvest hundreds of gourds and squashes for sale at our Sandwich Fair booth, and special thanks to Gretchen for planting and tending and to her family for providing the field and hoop house for storage. Harvesters: Sammie, Chris, Tim, Dylan, Tom, Beverly, Dale, Joan W., Duane, Sally Grete, Kevin, Heidi, and Gretchen.
 
PLEDGE SEASON FOR 2016
When you arrive at church, take notice of the empty cornucopia on the altar. This Sunday marks the beginning of our annual fall pledge season. If you attend regularly, you will find a pledge packet with your name on it on the piano in the transept. Please pick it up, take it home, and over the coming weeks pray and ponder seriously what the parish means to you personally and what it means to the community as a whole, then allow your thoughts and prayers to guide your giving plans for the coming year (2016). You will find a pledge card in your packet. When you have made your decision, fill out the card bring or mail it to the church. Then, as a symbol of your offered pledge, select an item from our gourd & squash basket and place it in the cornucopia. As an additional act of generosity, you are encouraged to contribute a container of vegetable or olive oil and to place that on the altar as well. The oil will be distributed through the Community Food Pantry. Our pledge season will extend through October, and on November 1st we will celebrate our generosity and love.
A few FAQs about Pledging…
How does pledging work?
By making a pledge to the church for the amount you plan to give over the coming year, your amount is combined with everyone else’s amount into a total so that the finance committee has a realistic amount to work with for establishing plans and the budget for the year ahead.
Who pledges? What if I’m only here for part of the year?
Everyone who participates in the life of the parish on a regular basis is encouraged to make a pledge. With the exception of Vestry members, no one is required to pledge. All are welcome in this place.
Why should I pledge? How much should I pledge?
That is a decision for you (and your family) to make thoughtfully and prayerfully. Pledging is a way of recognizing the priority of God and the importance of this church in your life. It is a way of fully owning your membership – of recognizing that you no longer see yourself as a visitor, but fully part of this parish family. No pledge is too small. In some circumstances, a pledge of $50 for the year ($1 a week) that you know you can fulfill may be the right pledge. You can always give more if you want. For others, $50 a week might be unreasonably low. What is your income? What are your necessary expenses? How do you weigh your priorities? Perhaps what is most important is to give with gratitude and joy – to give in a way that is truly a giving of yourself.
Planning ahead…
Session two of the Green Burial presentation is scheduled for Wednesday, September 30 at 7 pm at the Cook Library in Tamworth. Gretchen was one of the presenters for session one last night which was superb.
Food for thought…
The road to tolerance begins within. If our prayers are principally aimed at getting what we want from God we will be jealous of those who seem to have got more than us. But if we can pray with open hearts—without words or images, just be present in thankful trust—we can become open people and can rejoice in the good done by others and to others.  —Gerry Pierse, C.Ss.R. 

See you in church,
Blessings, Heidi+

September 17, 2015


Signs of Fall
There will be two services this coming Sunday, September 20th and the 17th Sunday after Pentecost, one at 8 and 10, with coffee hour following both services. We hope you will join us for worship and fellowship.

Readings: Proverbs 31:10-31, Psalm 1, James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a, Mark 9:30-37.
Come help us harvest! JOIN US this Saturday (Sept 19th) for Our Annual Harvesting Party. We will gather at 9 AM at Gretchen’s house in Tamworth Village (directions to follow) at 9AM to receive our “marching orders,” and will then proceed to the field.  We will harvest the gourds and squashes that Gretchen planted in May, wash them down, and prep them for sale at our booth at the Sandwich Fair. While the harvesting requires a comfortably agile body, we field workers will happily deliver the produce to the more sedentary team of washers. So there’s something for everyone to do. Children are welcome. At midday we’ll return to the house and share a potluck lunch together, so bring something to share. Please dress accordingly for the weather.

Directions to Gretchen’s: From the church go left (west) down Whittier Road. Take the first right onto rte. 113 over the bridge towards Tamworth village. Go past the Brett School and past the Post Office. Her drive way is on the left, shortly after the PO, 1.8 miles from the corner of Whittier Rd and immediately before the Police Station. There is a house number of 106 posted at the end of the dirt driveway. Follow it to the end. Park along the side of the driveway, or near the house if you need easy access. Questions call Gretchen at 323-7459.

HELP! Dinner Bell needs cooks for October 4th! If you think you would like to help with this outreach program and have never done this before, it’s easier than you think.  Please contact Carol Tubman with questions or contact the office with your confirmation to help.
Calling all bakers and jam makers!!! It’s Sandwich Fair prep time! Apple and/or pumpkin whoopee pies have become one of our now signature offerings!  Small loaves of seasonally appropriate sweet breads such as pumpkin, apple, apple spice, and zucchini are also top sellers! If you’re willing to help with some baking, please call Chris Mills at 603-452-4049 or email at alba4me@yahoo.com. She has a standard recipes to share for the whoopee pies and will provide more details to anyone who calls or emails. Make some now and freeze them, or commit now to baking later and have us count on you! Thanks.
Sign up to tend our booth at the Fair! It’s fun. It’s easy. Be an emissary of Saint Andrew’s! (And it gets you into the Sandwich Fair!) The fair runs for three days. The shifts are 3 hours.
The Syrian Refugee crisis is on all our minds and I trust in all our prayers. Please take the time to read our Presiding Bishop’s statement to the church and explore some of the background material that is provided within it. http://episcopaldigitalnetwork.com/ens/2015/09/14/presiding-bishops-statement-on-refugees-congregational-and-individual-response-suggestions/
Syrian refugees and migrants disembark the Eleftherios Venizelos passenger ship at the port of Piraeus, near Athens, Greece, September 14, 2015. Of the record total of 432,761 refugees and migrants making the perilous journey across the Mediterranean to Europe so far this year, an estimated 309,000 people had arrived by sea in Greece, the International Organization for Migration (IMO) said on Friday. About half of those crossing the Mediterranean are Syrians fleeing civil war, according to the United Nations refugee agency. REUTERS/Michalis Karagiannis  I also commend to you our Bishop’s September 11 post on his blog “Tending the Vine,” http://www.tendingthevine.org/news/  as together we pray and consider how we as individuals and as a parish might be called to respond to this, the world’s largest refugee crisis since World War II.

Planning ahead…
Session two of the Green Burial presentation is scheduled for Wednesday, September 30 at 7 pm at the Cook Library in Tamworth. Gretchen was one of the presenters for session one last night which was superb.
Our Annual Blessing of the Animals will be on Sunday, October 4th. There will be ONE service only at 9:00 that morning. Dogs should come on leash, cats and rabbits in carriers, birds in cages. Invite your friends to bring their pets as well, and if your animal doesn’t feel up to coming in person, feel free to bring a proxy. This year, our service falls on the actual Feast Day of St. Francis!
Food for thought (and included in last Sunday’s homily.)
Practice
We often think about religion as a set of beliefs,
doctrines, propositions or formulae for right thinking.
But religion is essentially a program of action;
a program of practices, both ritual and ethical
practices, and it is by faithfully and repeatedly
performing our practice that we come to believe.
And when we believe then we are changed.
                                                -Br. Robert L'Esperance
See you in church,
Blessings, Heidi+


September 10, 2015




There will be services at 8 and 10 this coming Sunday, the 13th of September, with a coffee hour following each service. We hope you will join us for join us for worship and fellowship.
Readings: Proverbs 1:20-33, Psalm 19, James 3:1-12, Mark 8:27-38.
The Church World Service CROP Walk coming up: Please support walkers who are looking for sponsors during Coffee Hour and consider walking yourself. The walk is scheduled for Sunday, October 25th. Gretchen Behr-Svendsen is our contact person.
Our Annual Harvesting Party will take place a week from Saturday – on September 19th, beginning at 9 AM! This is the event at which we harvest the gourds and squashes that Gretchen planted in May, wash them down, and prep them for sale at our booth at the Sandwich Fair. [See last week’s MEMO for more details.]
Calling all bakers!!! It’s Sandwich Fair prep time! If you’re willing to help with some baking, please call Chris Mills at 603-452-4049 or email at alba4me@yahoo.com. She has a standard recipes to share for the whoopee pies and I will provide more details to anyone who calls or emails. Make some now and freeze them, or commit now to baking later and have us count on you! Thanks. 
Contacting Elizabeth Wiesner. Elizabeth is now at Epsom Manor, 901 Suncook Valley Highway, Epsom, NH 03234. She can be reached at her cell number: 603-520-4220. She continues to be grateful for the cards, prayers, and messages from the parish. She expects to return home on September 22 to continue her recuperation.


Food for thought from the Rector on Green Burials and Home Burials... 
What are they? And an opportunity to learn.
At the time of Karl Svendsen’s death in July, many of you became aware of the concept of what has become known as a “green” burial. Very briefly, green burials represent a return to the very traditional burial practices of our forebears, before the days of funeral homes, when deaths took place at home and the family and close friends were present for the person’s passing, and were involved in tending to the body at home, building the coffin, and ultimately interring the body without embalming, so that the earth itself is not chemically polluted. It offers an intimate and tender approach to the death of a loved one.
Even if all aspects of a green burial may not be a preference for you personally, it may well be that some (or many) aspects of it might be. For Christians in our tradition, a funeral may be held in the church one to three days after the death, followed immediately by the graveside committal service, or the order may be reversed – with the body interred with a brief graveside liturgy a day or two after the death and a funeral/memorial service following at a somewhat later date.
Saint Andrew’s has been privileged to be involved with two such deaths and burials – that of Peter Booty (son of Kitty Lou and John, brother of Jane Booty Horn, and husband of Diane Decker Booty) several years ago, and that of Karl Svendsen (husband of Gretchen Behr-Svendsen) this past July.
Gretchen and Diane will be teaming up Julie Lanoie, a hospice coordinator and local green burial educator and support person, for a two-part presentation next Wednesday, September 16th, at 7 at the Cook Library. The first session will focus on several local people sharing their experiences, their reasons for choosing home burials, and how caring for their own helped them with the grieving process, etc. The second session, on September 30th, also at 7 pm, will focus on the "how-to" details, supported by photos that clearly demonstrate the process of moving, preparing burial site, etc. I am sure that explanation of legalities (yes, it’s legal) and the necessary specifics of permitting regulations will also be discussed.
I expect that most of us in this parish grew up with a sense that the process around death and burial was a topic of discussion and inquiry that was to be avoided as best as possible. Of course none of us can possibly avoid it completely, but within a relatively few generations what was at one time considered a normal and necessary part of life has been “handed over to the professionals” (i.e. funeral homes and the burial industry), and a myth has been perpetuated that grieving family members should be relieved of contact as quickly as possible with someone who has died, lest the presence of the body be too upsetting. Furthermore, in our culture we’ve been persuaded that the expensive services offered by funeral homes are somehow necessary indications of our love and respect! Thanks in part to the Hospice movement, we are learning to befriend death, and we are coming to realize something very important is lost from the grieving process when the body is immediately whisked away.
There is power and comfort in being aware of alternatives, and the best time to give serious thought to such things is when you are still alive and thinking clearly! Even if you think you have absolutely no personal interest in a “home” or “green” burial, I encourage you to push past any hesitations you might have and come to these presentations! As a community of faith, we owe it not only to ourselves but also to each other. Afterall…
 
None of us has life in himself,
and none becomes his own master when he dies.
For if we have life, we are alive in the Lord,
and if we die, we die in the Lord.
So, then, whether we live or die,
we are the Lord’s possession.
   
Romans 14:7-8 and the Burial Office, BCP p. 491

We're familiar with the adage, "It takes a village to raise a child." It may also takes a parish family to companion a person and his or her family in a holy death and burial.
See you in church,
Blessings, Heidi+

September 3, 2015


Three orders of ministry represented at the altar
There will be only ONE service this coming Sunday, September 6th and the 15th Sunday after Pentecost – at 9 AM with coffee hour hosted by the choir, following the service. Please join us for worship and fellowship.
Readings: Proverbs 22:1-2, 8-9, 22-23, Psalm 125, James 2:1-17, Mark 7:24-37.
The Church World Service CROP Walk has been a regular part of our summers for quite a few years. This year, in response to the realities of summer heat for this 6 mile walk, the organizers have scheduled the actually walk for Sunday, October 25th.  Please support walkers who are looking for sponsors during Coffee Hour and consider walking yourself. (Sponsor forms will be available Sunday.) At least half of the money raised by the CROP Walk comes back to our Community Food Pantry and our Dinner Bell Program. The balance goes to overseas development work. Gretchen Behr-Svendsen is our contact person.
Women’s Lunch Bunch will meet this coming Wednesday, September 9, at noon at the Mountain View Station Restaurant in Center Ossipee. All women are welcome. Come once in a while or come often … for good conversation and the company of women. Questions? Call Dale Appleton at 539-3761.
Harvesting
Our Annual Harvesting Party is now scheduled for Saturday, September 19, beginning at 9 AM and you are warmly invited! This is the event at which we harvest the gourds and squashes that Gretchen planted in May, wash them down, and prep them for sale at our booth at the Sandwich Fair. We will gather at Gretchen’s house in Tamworth Village (directions to follow) at 9AM to receive our “marching orders,” and will then proceed to the field. While the harvesting requires a comfortably agile body, we field workers will happily deliver the produce to the more sedentary team of washers. So there’s something for everyone to do. Children are welcome. At midday we’ll return to the house and share a potluck lunch together.

washing

Sandwich Fair preparations are underway for October 10, 11, 12. We will be vending jellies, jams, baked goods, and crafts crated by all who are willing and able to be involved! Contact: Carol Tubman or Chris Mills for project ideas and specifics
Calling all bakers!!! It’s Sandwich Fair prep time! Apple and/or pumpkin whoopee pies have become one of our now signature offerings!  Small loaves of seasonally appropriate sweet breads such as pumpkin, apple, apple spice, and zucchini are also top sellers! If you’re willing to help with some baking, please call Chris Mills at 603-452-4049 or email at alba4me@yahoo.com. She has a standard recipes to share for the whoopee pies and I will provide more details to anyone who calls or emails. Make some now and freeze them, or commit now to baking later and have us count on you! Thanks. 
 
Saint Andrew’s reaching out to the world: Some images from the memorial service for Tamworth resident Susan Chiairadona, held last Saturday on our lawn

 
Contacting Elizabeth Wiesner. Elizabeth has recently moved to a new facility and expects to be there until about September. She is no longer at Frisbie Hospital. She is at Epsom Manor in Epsom, New Hampshire. Please call her cell phone before embarking on a visit. She is so appreciative of the cards, prayers and messages from the parish.
ALL CHURCH FREEZER USERS: HEADS UP! If you have an occasion to use the freezer in the back hall – for communion bread, Dinner Bell, or retrieving coffee hour goodies – PLEASE, please, please make sure the door is firmly closed and LOCKED with the key that hangs on the adjacent door frame (and then return the key to it’s place). This week the door was accidentally left slightly ajar. Fortunately, it was noticed before anything warmed above 40 degrees, but ALL the several gallons of ice cream were lost, and meats had to be dispensed for immediate use.
FYI: The purpose of the key is to assure that the door stays closed, to see to it that you use it.
Flowers given in loving memory of Charlie Starr by Dale Appleton.
Ponderings from the Rector…
As we return from the vacation spirit of summer I have been thinking and praying about how we as a parish engage in Christian spiritual formation. Please note, I’m not saying “How is our Sunday School going?” I am, however, deeply concerned that we have not done will at engaging many in our parish in explorations that will deepen our formation and faith and lead to real transformation. We are certainly formed by faithfulness in worship, but some intentional learning, a basic knowledge and facility with the Bible, and a familiarity with our Anglican tradition and how it supports our engagement in the wider world, as well as our faith and relationship with Christ, are significantly important for the vitality of Christian life for people of ALL ages.
We adults have a profound responsibility, not only to ourselves and to each other, but especially to the young people in our parish. I know it is easy to assume that the rector and the parents “will take care of that,” but it truly requires all of us to support them in their acquisition of a lively and vital faith. I’ve come to suspect that the general reluctance of adults to be willing to step forward in this venture may well have to do with the realization that many of you feel pretty insecure in much of your own formation. If that speaks to you, maybe it’s time to respond.
Not to be gloomy or alarmist, but if we are unable to pass on a lively and intentional faith to others, the church will not be around, and the profound, life-saving, life-transforming gifts of life in Christ will unknown.
I would like us to begin to tackle this situation together over the coming weeks. What is it that you personally need to take your next step? What do you think others need? Where have you been disappointed in the past? What to you long for? Do you have thoughts about how we structure our learning? How might we, in the midst of our busy lives, give the Christian formation of ourselves and others the priority it deserves, recognizing that this is not medicine to be taken, but ultimately a great life-changing gift that is ours to receive?
So, I invite you to prayer and contemplation. God is with us in this and the Holy Spirit will guide us, but we have to be open to its inklings and whisperings. And if you’d like to share your thoughts with me – by phone, email, or in person – please do. I look forward to our pilgrimage together!
See you in church,
Blessings, Heidi+